".......and they lived happily ever after" the usual closure line
of all the fairytale we have read till date. The prince arrives on a white horse
and takes the princess along with him to lead a happy life ahead. As we complete
reading such a story we close the book but the last line linger in our mind. We
close our eyes and begin to dream.... We start weaving a whole web of beautiful
thoughts. However life isn't so easy and calm as these stories depict. Every sunrise
announces the arrival of a new day bringing along lots of surprises and shocks too.
The prepared ones with the sharpened tools move on leaving the dreamers behind.
I am not saying that we shouldn't be positive about life, we should indeed be but
to an extent that we accept the negatives too along with it. In order to accept
the negatives we should inculcate the right thoughts within us. 'Life is not a bed
of roses' someone said and it has grown into a cliché now. All the people have this
proverb at their tongue tip but still......still they narrate the so called fairy tales
to their baby girls. They grow up into a teenager with lots of expectations about
life. She feels that life has got a lot to offer, especially love. Even when
she looks through the window and sees the pavement or the road nearby she feels
that her prince charming is on his way...riding on a white horse or these days
in a luxurious car. She feels that her life also just like the princess will
turn out beautifully well. But hey...let us get this straight. It is the 21st century
that we are living in, where things are not the way it seems to be. We expect
something and what happens is totally different. So are we being misled the
whole of our tender childhood? The little girls are fed with lots of beautiful stories
all of them with a happy ending in which everyone unites and leads a happy
life. Our elders having lots of concerns within them always want us to have a
pleasant thought about life, so that we feel to live and love our life. Due to
these thoughts we trust everyone we meet and imagine a fairytale ending for our
personal story too. When it happens the other way round we are left feeling
betrayed. We have a tough time accepting it. Soon we are left to wonder and we
question ourselves....it was not so sad in the fairy tales but why is my life
so? 'Heartbreak' as they term it has become the leading cause for the depression
in the teenagers. There was a time when love was pure and sacred - it dates back
to the time of Romeo-Juliet or Heer-Ranjha but the scenario now is completely a
different one. Even commitment is very difficult for the lovers of today. Living
happily ever after in every one of our dreams which seldom comes true. Knowing
this we still think that life is just as beautiful as it is put in the childish
stories of love. Life does not offer everything we need and some special things
are held selfishly away from us. We crave for it but still we don't get it.
Want to read a fairytale? - think twice. Let us face the real life and prevent
ourselves from feeling betrayed.
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